littleapocalypsegirl
Dear Cis People:
I see the disgusted looks on some of your faces since my cis boyfriend (with my permission) told you I am trans. I hear the condescension when some of you talk to me. My chatty Cathy hippie boyfriend can’t believe it’s because of the disclosure but I know. And stop flirting with him, girls and gay guys. Me being trans doesn’t mean I don’t count as his boyfriend. I am proud to be trans but now that you treat me this way and now misgender me makes me wish I never came out.

Dear Cis People:

I see the disgusted looks on some of your faces since my cis boyfriend (with my permission) told you I am trans. I hear the condescension when some of you talk to me. My chatty Cathy hippie boyfriend can’t believe it’s because of the disclosure but I know. And stop flirting with him, girls and gay guys. Me being trans doesn’t mean I don’t count as his boyfriend. I am proud to be trans but now that you treat me this way and now misgender me makes me wish I never came out.

Anonymous asked:

If someone has newly revealed to you, and you slip up and use a she instead of he (or vice versa) what's the best way to say you're sorry and feel disgustingly horrible for saying it

QUIP - Quick, Understanding, In Private.

Ask the person to talk privately, recognize what you did, apologize, and move the hell on. People too often make the apology about yourself and not about apologizing. Just say “I’m sorry I used the wrong pronouns, that was shitty of me, I’m working on it.” If it’s too awkward to ask them to speak in private, apologize right when you screw up, correct yourself, and then MOVE ON. Often, apologizing in a group can bring up anxieties about being outed, so the smart thing to do is just two words, “-sorry! She …” and then continue with what you were saying.

Anonymous asked:

So just because I do not know the correct pronouns, and that it seems everyone continues to make up new ones (Seriously, Cis?) that makes me sexist? That makes me Scum? You know, Sexism does not apply only to men who objectify women. I believe that a True Sexist is someone who finds fault in someones sex/sexual orientation. What you are doing is sexist. No one is automatically going to know the right pronoun, especially if you make it up on tumblr.

Cis isn’t a pronoun, friend. It’s a description. The fact that you didn’t know that (or that it comes from science and Latin, not from out of one of our asses) means you should do a little research into trans issues before you go to a rant page made for people to vent and make it all about you.

ebony-lotus asked:

If there has ever been a cesspool of hypocrisy and bigotry, as much as those words are over used, that cesspool would be here. If there is any type of person that I will ever hate, it will be the kind that drowns themselves in this false reality that you've created. 90% of you are not even Transvestites, you're all simply playing make believe just to get attention. Not even 9% of the population of the WORLD are Trans. Your honeyed words mean nothing.

Anonymous asked:

I've had someone tell me that if I bring a guy home and find out he has a vagina, I can't deny him sex. Do you agree? Because I think its wrong. I have the right to say no whenever I want. I can't help that I like dick, why do I have to do it then?

You have the right to say no whenever you want. Anything else is nothing short of rape. Period.

Whether or not your refusal comes from transphobia is not an issue when asking whether or not you have the ability to remove consent at any time. And I don’t even think you’re really being transphobic - liking/not liking a body part is just a matter of preference. Just ask yourself this - would you date a trans guy who had a penis? If you still wouldn’t, then it isn’t the guy’s biology that’s changing your opinion and you want to do some deep thinking on why that is. If not, you’re not being transphobic, you just have a preference for dick.

Regardless, you can tell whoever is telling that to you that I’d like to explain to them what rape is and what rape culture is.

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tofutits:

This is so FUCKING SCARY

what the fuck is going on

THIS IS THE ONLY TIME I WILL EVER SAY THIS. NO MATTER WHAT KIND OF BLOG YOU ARE RUNNING REBLOG THIS. THIS CRAP NEEDS TO BE KNOWN. NEEDS TO BE SEEN. AND NEEDS TO BE SPREAD.THIS IS HAPPENING IN MY STATE AND IT IS FUCKING TERRIFYING. LET IT BE KNOWN. DON’T STOP SPREADING THE NEWS. MAKE EVERYONE SEE THE SHIT THAT IS GOING DOWN. Please. No body else seems to be protecting them anymore. Do what you can.